Communicate with Clarity - July 2024

Happy July!

As we enter into July, the vision that comes up when looking at the energy is the golden question mark box from the Super Mario Bros games. July provides continued opportunities for growth and surprises. The golden box often brings mysteries about what you'll get but is always a valuable tool to help you in the game. If you've ever played a version of these video games, you know that the skill is to make contact with the box in order to receive the boost.

This month, be on the lookout for your golden mystery box. Gaining access to the box may take work, though. With communication being a significant area of focus for many this month, you'll have opportunities to initiate conversations that will be like jumping up and hitting the box and seeing what boost you get.

How will you know what conversations need to be initiated? Take a look inward and see where you are avoiding situations and people. Conversations will help bring clarity. Sometimes, it's not the clarity we always want. Still, typically, if we are feeling stuck in any area of life, it's these conversations that need to happen to clear the energy between people and situations. Honest conversations free up stagnation, and everyone affected will have a chance to find a new level of alignment.

If this sounds great and you are ready to level up, here are some practical ways to start conversations if you need some ideas. Adjust as needed depending on your situation and relationship with the person. When in doubt, though, coming from a place of curiosity often diffuses most situations when dealing with rational people.

"There have been some challenges I've been faced with lately, and I'd love to schedule some time to review them and get your input. Is this something you are open to? When could we schedule this?"

"I've noticed that you have had difficulty being present with me lately. Is there some stuff on your mind you'd like to talk about? I'd love to hear what's going on for you. I miss being present with you."

"I've been observing some conflict in the office lately, and I have a few ideas on navigating it. Would you be open to hearing them and supporting the implementation if you also think they would be helpful?"

"I'm gaining clarity on some needs I'd love to have met in our relationship. Are you open to hearing them? Is there anything you would need for me to get this need met?"

"I would love to share that though it probably wasn't your intention when you did XYZ, the result was me feeling XYZ. I care about you and our relationship and wanted you to know so that resentment doesn't build up. Are you open to repairing this with me?"

Again, these are just a few examples of learning a new communication skill and approaching potentially challenging situations to make yourself feel heard and seen and to be open to hearing and seeing someone else. Clear, curiosity-based communication can bring clarity to yourself and others.

These conversations will be like hitting the golden mystery box and seeing what you get on the other side. It may be confidence on the other side that makes you feel better about yourself in all ways. It could be clarity that allows creativity to flow again. It could be respect for yourself and others. It could be honoring your inner child that brings more safety and trust within you.

The key this month will be your ability to discern what opportunity you have in front of you, take ownership of your part, figure out a solution, and, if you'd like to challenge your skillset, jump into the box and see what wants to support you on the other side.

Let's look at what the stars have in store for us this month:

On July 2nd, Neptune Retrograde begins. This retrograde can present fog on your path. Maybe the future seems fuzzy. The fog provides a purpose and will cause you to slow down, hone your intuition, and work through karma. Stay the course by getting grounded and present and addressing what's right in front of you. Find a flow with this energy over the next few months.

July 5th presents the Cancer New Moon. If you feel called to start something new, stick to implementing what you know best. Continue to hone what you are already good at by adding a new creative spin. Addressing matters at home, with your family, and feeling more emotionally optimistic are all on the table to experience with this new moon.

July 21st leads us to the Capricorn Full Moon. The energy you feel with one may tie into last month's Full Moon in Capricorn. Notice if there are themes you are playing out now that take you to new heights and make progress on what you've been doing well already. Navigate ways to manage any stress you may feel when responsibilities increase. Trust you have the resources needed to go to new levels.

Our stone of the month is Blue Calcite to support your throat chakra and self-expression.

Blue calcite promotes balance and harmony. It aids in supporting healthy communication in healing ways. Its soothing blue color promotes calmness and tranquility to help offset those moments when you might feel afraid to speak up.

Blue calcite helps those seeking to express themselves more clearly and effectively. It enhances intuition and can support the development of psychic abilities. Because of its calming spiritual nature, this is an excellent stone to work with while meditating. You can hold it, wear it, or have it nearby.

This cleansing stone can help to clear negative energies, shift stagnant energy, and enhance self-awareness. Blue calcite is even said to help lower blood pressure, reduce physical pain, and relieve anxiety.

You can visit the store seven days a week for all of your blue calcite wants and needs.

For all of your Smoky Quartz wants and needs, visit us at the shop. The store is open seven days a week. Monday - Saturday from 11 am - 6 pm and Sunday from 12 pm - 5 pm.